My name is George Rolph.

I have three children. My partners have kept me from them on the basis of their own whims and apparently with complete legal impunity.

One of these two mothers stole my son Matthew and took him to New Zealand without my consent or knowledge. When I sought help from a lawyer, he openly laughed in my face and told me there was no way I could fight a case on Legal Aid for my son in New Zealand. He also told me that had I been the mother, Interpol would have tracked down the male kidnapper and brought him back to Britain, on Legal Aid.

The police told me that, according to page three of the British passport application form, women were entitled by law to legally kidnap children but, the children's father needs the mothers written permission before they can take children out of the country. My son, who was kidnapped by his mother, is now living somewhere in the world with a violent abusive female that politicians refuse to admit even exist.

My other two kids were kept from me for 22 years by their mother for no reason other than spite. I have recently re-established contact with my beautiful daughter. My son hates me because of the intense programming he was given by his bitter mother. That is abuse! It is abuse of me, the father, and of the children denied contact by a psychotic female encouraged in her abuse by the government.

In my life I have been abused by women on three different occasions. The first time was as a child by my step mother. She took delight in rubbing my face in urine soaked sheets when I wet the bed. Beating myself and my sister with a variety of implements including, copper sticks, and pokers. Lying to my father to cover up her gambling debts by claiming my sister and I stole the money from her purse and then calling us liars when we denied it. As a punishment she delighted in filling our mouths with Colmans English Mustard before locking us in our bedroom with our mouths and throats on fire and no access to water.

I had reasonable relationship with women until, as an adult I met the loony who stole my son and took him to New Zealand. She punched me between the legs while driving down the fast lane of the M4 in heavy traffic and in rain, causing me to lose control of the car. She split my head open with a piece of wood. She threatened me with knives and smashed a camera on my head. I was bitten, scratched and insulted on a daily basis but, I refused to hit her because I was brought up to believe hitting women was wrong.

No one taught her that hitting men was wrong!

The final abuser took my head apart with constant put downs and insults. Her daughter was encouraged to kick me between the legs on three different occasions and her father threatened to have me killed. Her brother told everyone where I live that I am a pedophile and I was forced to tape record a telephone call with the pedophile unit at New Scotland Yard to prove my innocence. To this day, 7 years later, people still write things and either post them through my letter box or, on one occasion, paint on my front door post, "A nonce lives here." The police, on both occasions refused to help me and when I complained about being hit with wood and threatened with knives by the first abuser, I was asked what I had done to provoke her!

The result of this abuse is that I am unable to work because I suffer with P.T.S.D. This means my nights are filled with nightmares. My appetite is shot to hell. I have an exaggerated startle reflex, suffer with depression and live the life of a virtual prisoner in my home. I exist on a pittance of sickness benefit in a house I cannot afford to decorate where the paper is falling off the walls. My abusers are doing very nicely in the knowledge that nothing has, or is likely to happen to them, legally, for their behaviour. I am therefore powerless. Yet, when I hear Jack Straw announce that, "Domestic abuse is men hitting women." And then offering Women's Aid and Refuge a few more millions of pounds in financial aid.....

I am not supposed to get angry about it.

I run a 24hr help line for men that is not funded. I did try to get funding for it. I joined the Lewisham domestic violence forum. Once on the forum I gave an hour long presentation complete with research, statistics, and a female witness who gave evidence that she herself knew three abused men, living very close to her home and who were friends. I then asked for help for these men and financial aid for myself. At the next meeting of the forum I discovered that everything I had said had been ignored in the minutes. It was as if I had never spoken. I discovered later that a women's aid member on the forum had contrived to have all I said deleted from the records and was opposing funding for men. I complained and it was made clear to me that I was no longer welcome at the forum. I left.

Men in my area still have no place to run with their kids if they suffer abuse.

Men, it seems no longer have any value as citizens until a war starts, when we suddenly become good enough to die.

I have written to every single British MEP asking for help for men. None, not one, ever bothered to reply. I have written countless letters to MP`s and home office officials begging for help for men only to be fobbed off.

Yet these people want our votes to stay in power!

Ken Livingstone told me on a live radio phone-in that my evidence for the amount of men abused in Britain was false. When I told him I had copies of studies from all over the western world proving my figures correct, he told me he had never seen such figures and challenged me to send them to him. I agreed and did so. Three months later and after pressing him for a reply to my evidence, he sent a letter in which he admitted knowing about the existence of the studies I had sent him. That means he knowingly lied to me and all the listeners on the Radio London phone in.

Yet this paragon of virtue wants our votes in his election for Mayor!

The BBC deliberately published false figures on its web site that exaggerated the amount of female victims of domestic abuse while at the same time diminished the numbers of male victims. Despite many phone calls to them and hundreds of e-mail's pointing out their errors, as well as the evidence of their own poll taken as part of the "Hitting Home" campaign, they refused to change a single word.

Yet we are supposed to pay the licence fee to keep them on the air!

Endless appeals to the press to examine our claims that Home office researchers are deliberately fabricating evidence to "bump up" the amount of female victims of abuse and at the same time are deliberately under estimating the amount of male victims, come to nothing. Pleas for publicity are largely ignored or, if they do happen, always end with a claim from Women's Aid or Refuge that our figures are wrong and should be ignored.

Yet we are supposed to believe we have a free press and journalists actually care about their readers!

Father are losing contact with their own flesh and blood in huge numbers every week, but politicians, broadcasters and journalists don't give a damn. We ask for their help and they sneer at us with contempt. Men are good enough to die to keep their families safe in countless wars, but not good enough for anything other than to "visit" their own kids for a few hours a month on the whim of a mother and the gutless excuses of a highly paid idiot called a judge. Naturally, Lawyers love this because they circle around the broken hearts of fathers like vultures and set to work picking their financial bones clean. The houses of parliament is filled with lawyers.

Conflict of interest? Jobs for the boys and girls? Corruption!

Mothers have been jailed for not sending their kids to school yet this government and its tame judiciary cannot and will not jail a mother denying access to a father! Boys are failing in schools because the politically correct, feminist ethos of the day, will not allow them to roughhouse in the playground and burn off their natural aggression and competitive instincts, before they come to class. These boys then fidget and mess around and the answer from the geniuses running our country?.... Fill them with Ritalin! When girls were falling behind in the classroom ten years ago, the government threw so much help at them it was unreal. They did not, however, drug them.

Message? Girls matter and boys don't!

Now we watch as the politicians, press and TV pundits scream and cry because Tony Blair was hit by a condom filled with flour! Are they screaming because fathers and male abuse victims are being damaged beyond belief? No! Don't be silly. Are they screaming because the streets are filled with out of control kids that single mothers cannot cope with? No! Don't be silly. They are not allowed to pick on blacks, homosexuals, women, the disabled or any other special interest group. Men are the last target for bigots to hate. We are the 21st century niggers. They need us to victimise. Well guess what.....

WE HAVE HAD ENOUGH!

My pain and the pain of millions like me matters. My justice and the justice of millions like me matters. My rights matter and the rights of millions like me matters. This is just the start of our defiance. The men are coming. Men who are police officers, lawyers, teachers, professors, authors, judges, soldiers, journalists, teachers, dustmen, publicans, politicians, and every other walk of life. Men who have been hounded by abusive women or seen their kids snatched from them. We are coming and we are angry and their is NOTHING you or anyone else reading this can do to stop us! We are voters! We are angry and YOU are going to listen!

Those who weep for Tony Blair should remember this: Angry men threw a condom full of flour. Very angry men know how to die for their families. We have done it for centuries.

Everyone knows where a condom fits... don't they Tony!

NOW WE FIGHT BACK AND OUR CRY IS A SIMPLE ONE:

NO MORE SILENCE!

George Rolph
No More Silence.
London.

Last Update: 19 November 2004

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