Introduction
When is a lie not a lie ? It is not a lie when it is told by a woman,
in relation to a civil court proceeding or a divorce hearing.
Women can say and falsely accuse men of anything, without being required
to substantiate any of their claims. The women are above the requirements
of the law, for having to provide proof of the charges they make, when
it comes to a divorce and claims of spousal abuse.
In this day and age, a man is guilty in the eyes of the courts, until
proven innocent, when it comes to the accusations of a woman. Moreover,
it is made almost impossible for a man to prove his innocence. He is
given little recourse within the legal system.
The Facts
In this case, the woman was a foreign national, an alien seeking to
stay in this country. The man, was the director of a Christian Based
Ministry.
The woman was caught in adultery. The husband filed for a divorce.
In retaliation, the woman filed the spousal abuse charges, one month
after the initial divorce filing. The woman even responded to the initial
divorce filing, stating that she disagreed, that the marriage was irretrievably
broken.
The woman wanted to gain the advantage over the man, instead of her
having to answer, and be responsible for, her actions. With the filing
of the divorce, the woman was subject to certain deportation, because
her visa was attached to being married only to the one man. But, once
she knew she was facing deportation, she filed the spousal abuse charges,
after the fact. Claiming spousal abuse prevented the woman from being
deported and provided grounds for the woman to stay in this country
and sponsor herself.
The woman went to the Arapahoe County Courts. She claimed spousal abuse.
Without her being required to provide one shred of physical evidence
or one witness to substantiate her claims, the Arapahoe County Courts
immediately issued a restraining order against the man, without ever
talking to the man or providing him with the opportunity to defend himself.
The Arapahoe County Courts, cared nothing for the motivation behind
the filing of spousal abuse charges by the woman. They even took the
opposite position against the man, and placed him under a restraining
order, which prevented him from contacting, cooperating with, or providing
evidence to the INS. He could not provide them with information that
would affect the application of the woman to stay in this country, based
upon her claims of spousal abuse. The man was inhibited from providing
any defence to the charges leveled against him, or cooperation with
the Federal Government.
The Courts required not one shred of physical evidence to be presented
by the woman and did not require one witness. They just issued a restraining
order, based upon the groundless claims and ravings of the woman.
When the matter went to a formal hearing, the woman still did not provide
one shred of physical evidence or one witness. She got up on the stand,
ranting and raving and just stated a string of lies. Nevertheless, the
Arapahoe County Courts did not challenge her for proof, but put a restraining
order in place against the man, based only on the testimony given by
the woman and man.
Though the woman perjured herself to gain advantage over the man, no
one dares challenge her or question her claims or motivation. Not the
police, not the courts, and not the DA’s office. The woman is
looked upon as being above reproach and no one is willing to investigate,
to see and prove that she is lying.
The Arapahoe County Courts, without ever requiring anyone to submit
to a polygraph, or provide any physical evidence, or provide witnesses,
or provide records of police complaints, or provide any substantiation
to the charges, subjects the man to defamation of character, slander,
ruination of his reputation, financial loss, possible criminal prosecution,
and the potential for a permanent criminal record. The woman is allowed
to literally ruin the man’s life, without ever having to answer
or prove to anyone, what she claims. There is no one questioning the
woman, requiring proof, or even looking at the motivation behind the
charges being made, until a possible final divorce hearing. But in the
meantime, the man is badgered into a submissive position, by the threats
of the women and the courts, to settle the filing, before going before
a prejudiced court and legal system.
Because this is a no-fault state, no one cares about what is right
and wrong. It is all about advantage, for the financial gain of the
women. Adultery gives the wronged man no advantage in court. Spousal
abuse does, for the women. So claims of spousal abuse put the men at
a disadvantage and on the defensive, because the courts and laws are
biased and support the women. The men are deemed guilty and subjected
to persecution, without evidence.
No one cares what the truth is. The courts just rule, based upon the
State statutes and the unsubstantiated railings of a woman who is motivated
by profit.
Conclusion
There is apparently a new justice in this country, that precludes the
rights of men. It is a Woman’s brand of justice, that does not
require truth, proof, or substantiation. It is a justice meant to subjugate
men, to the position of being less than equal in the eyes of the courts,
and afforded fewer rights than women.
It is a justice that enslaves men to the wills of women, in opposition
to the truth. Men are not provided due process of Law, in the face of
the accusations of women, within the court system. Sometimes, the only
way to drive the women into the position of having to provide evidence,
is to file a civil suit against them for slander and defamation of character.
There is no longer justice for all. We live in this country, partly
because of its standards of justice. Well, men are no longer afforded
justice, within the civil / divorce legal system. Justice is now apparently
conditional, based upon the context of the situation and the sex of
the individuals involved.
Within the civil courts, they do not care about truth and justice anymore
-- only about the administration of the laws that are set in place,
that favor the women’s agendas, and the dispersion of assets to
the women.
(Name Supplied)
PS. The author is willing to submit to polygraph,
under any conditions, and to provide documentation, in order to substantiate
the truth of the claims made in this article.
NB. The above scenario, with minor variations,
is a perfectly normal occurrence in courts in most parts of the Western
World. (Peter Zohrab)