Not that there aren't more than a few,
but, as true equality advocates and activists, we seek out and listen
for women who detest the feminist, propaganda, hate-agenda BS. These
good women clearly reason and proclaim why and how feminism is hurting
the men, fathers and boys in their lives and whom they know, but also
that feminism is hurting them and all women too, most of all. Feminism
should receive the ultimate Darwin Award (cleansing itself from the
human gene pool by its own sheer stupidity - actions destroying itself).
I got my first clue that women were more abusive than men from so many
women themselves who swore this was so. I didn't quite believe them,
at first... But now it makes sense, not just because of the reams of
research I've gone over. Good women see the abusive, manipulative, lying
women first hand, and before men do. For starters, they dealt with these
manipulative, lying, abusive ones ALL the way through school as kids.
They watched/experienced those girls grow up only to destroy themselves
and all those around them with their lies and destructive, abusive,
manipulative behaviors and often ending up divorced and miserable, blaming
the misery of their own making onto the man they divorced, or who divorced
her for REAL abuse. But most men are patient and want to "work
on the relationship" far more than these women want to. These patient
men put up with the abuse until the woman projects it all onto him and
divorces him because of her own abusiveness...
Yes I do believe those women now, who told me that women are more abusive
and more often than men. Feminists are the sickest of all women. Feminism
is the collecting pool for the most mentally ill, detached and destructive
of all women (and men). Some of these men can also be called hyper-chivalrous
as well as feminist. They denounce their own for the rewards from the
oppressor enemy who adopt them, for now.
A great book for ferreting out the better women, whom you'd want to
be with or even marry, is Dr. Laura's Proper Care and Feeding of
Husbands - very anti-feminist and anti-double standards. I don't
think I could get involved with a woman unless SHE wants to read it
(or preferably already has on her own and loves it already, on her own
initiative), not because I reasoned with her or convinced her or "made"
her read the book. I know enough now to tell whether a woman likes real
equality or is faking it.
Since protection of women is so precious, politically correct, wonderful
and paramount, our closest allies are the many women who detest feminism
on the basis that "feminism uses and spits out women," not
just men, children families and society. Yes, stop the REAL abuse of
women in making them miserable through feminist abuse of them. Dr. Laura
points this out too, that women are responsible for most of their own
misery and unhappiness by being so self centered and rejecting actual
equality, reciprocal consideration, respect and kindness. Even though
most women are not feminists and don't like feminism in general, Dr.
Laura claims that the majority of women still unwittingly buy into feminist
"me first and only" practices deeply ingrained into modern
society anyway, making themselves unhappy and bitchy (bitchy is just
a nice word for abusive).
I've heard more than one feminist book review (of Dr. Laura's book)
saying that it encourages women to accept men who just want lots of
sex and a woman who will be nice to him. "Nice" is just a
nicer way of saying not abusive.
But then again, as Thomas Ellis in his book, The Rantings of a
Single Male, said in his chapter, Rant M - The missing part
of the female brain, it's not logic women lack (though we see virtually
no signs of logic from feminists, who are technically not women but
a third gender hell-bent on destroying the other two, and especially
their children) but the ability to see themselves in the reversed role
of their male partner or men in their lives and to act equally according
to that insight, using the golden rule.
I personally thought this was simply called empathy. Women supposedly
have all of the empathy and men have none. Right... But we find that
it is the men, especially of the men's and fathers' movement, that have
more empathy than anyone, especially when it comes to empathy crossing
gender boundaries. That's where men really "dominate" over
women, and always have. Men have long lived to make women happy, to
protect and provide for them.
Is giving anything back in return such a bad thing? Yes, according
to feminists. We can see ourselves in women's shoes (no, not literally,
unless you're a drag queen...), but fewer women can see themselves in
our shoes (OK, maybe some of the really butch ones literally can). So
many women lack this insight, because as Ellis says, it's not to their
advantage to see or acknowledge their superior position, or the way
they walk all over men to get that. So why should they see and acknowledge
it, if they are getting so much more "equality" than men are?
It's those women who see it our way (the walk
in another's shoes, the golden rule way) that we look
for to speak out with us, for their good and our good and the good of
our children, the next generation.